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ChapmansOfNH

ChapmansOfNH

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Hello all,
My name is AnneMarie and my husband would like me to find him another wife. I still struggle with jealousy but on the same token God has shown me how another woman could enhance and benefit our family. I came to the conclusion that God allowed men to have multiple wives after I tried to biblically prove my husband wrong. That sure didn't work out the way I planned!!! I look forward to being an active member of this group - that is as much as my husband and four boys allow......
Thanks for listening,
AnneMarie
 
From the staff here at Biblical Families :D WELCOME!

We look forward to being a service and extended spiritual family to you here.

And, you'll find many other ladies here from all walks of life who can identify with you and your struggles.

With love you'll have a support system here.....y'all just take your time and and walk (don't run) in the Spirit and he will lead your paths (Proverbs 3:5-6).

Dr. K.R. Allen
 
Thanks for the welcome everyone,
Encouragement is not something we are used to receiving when we speak of plural marriage with others! I think I could get used to it.........
AnneMarie
 
Ditto...ditto...ditto to everything everyone else has said...I hope you find this to be a forum where you can learn, consider, and maybe even help as we all try to do...congratulations on overcoming the "Christian" and Catholic" doctrine that is ...let's just say less than accurate...and realizing the truth from the scriptures themselves...well done...every time I see that happen I feel like "another one has been unplugged from the Matrix"... : )
 
Hello AnnMarie ,

I hope you don`t mind I`d like to interact with you a bit as you explore this part of your relationship with your husband. I`d like to comment and ask questions along the way as I visit here .

I`m curious as to how people make this work , Is it easier or thought to be by both the wife and husband if the woman picks the added partner , if the wife has a good relationship with the woman being added , loves her ,wants her to belong as family , makes it easier than the man picking? Doe sit eliminate some jealousy, trust issues and fears?

Hannah
 
Hi Hannah,
Feel free to pick my brain anytime. I just hope I can actually be of help since we are on square one as far as looking for wife two. Me having a loving relationship with another wife is the only way I can see it work. As you said - with me helping to find her it might lessen some of the initial jealousies and insecurities. In theory anyway!!
AnneMarie
 
AnneMarie,

I think square one is a fine place to be , meaning talking about it with your husband, both laying in front what you both see as good and postive benefits to the whole forward in time.

I would think there is so much to talk about before moving to square two . I think it is sound to do it one step at a time . When you both feel solid on your feet and in your beliefs you move forward together , in my mind if the husband repsects you and your thoughts, fears, questions and needs, and puts it all inplace before moving forward, than you will do good and even flourish as a loving unit

I`ve been reading this site a bit , I`ve seen husband do as you see right, need ,want . Take a second wife even if the first is not on board, even teach her a lesson by doing so and leave her be to either get on board or not.

I think the first union of husband and wife needs to be solid , built on strong foundation, if it is teh second added will do the same, so to me steps ,slow seems right
 
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