Sorry ladies, no reason for this topic to not have a man respond on it though!
You're just not looking in the right places, the forum is very active. If you go to the "Forum" menu at the top of the page, and click "Forum Index", you can scroll through all the different sections of the forum, new posts should be in red. Or select "Active Topics" from the same menu and it will give you all the topics people have been posting on recently. You may just be looking in this "Ladies Only" section, which isn't very active.
It's good to have you here, welcome to the forum!