I am curious, ladies, how many of you consider yourself as having an artistic personality, how many of you brought the idea of polygamy to your husband first, and do you think your artistic personality was a factor in drawing you to this lifestyle? Just curious. Feel free to elaborate on what draws you to this life style. I am an artist and it was me who first brought the idea up to my husband. I am fascinated by what motivates and draws people. If the idea of polygamy began with you, do you find that your husband narrows his search for potential wives to women that are like you in personality, looks, and interests? I am so completely opposite of my husband. We don't like the same movies, we don't listen to the same music, we think differently and we come from opposite backgrounds. I honestly, thought he might look for someone who had more in common with him and shared a similar background. However, I am discovering that not to be true. I almost want to say, "You don't need a carbon copy of me" because that seems to be his goal. All those traits that I thought he just put up with in me are actually the traits that attracted him to me. I am learning so much about him through this process and about what makes him tick.