Pastor John,
I agree with you on your comment, that marriage cannot be based on any issue but the love of God.....
But....
Plural marriage is a "third rail" issue for a lot of Christians. Much like the rail that was used to electrify elevated and subway trains, you tough this "rail" for some, and death (or broken relationships) occur.
How can we be both sensitive to the lack of understanding of those who are emotionally opposed to plural marriage, while at the same time effectively communicating those beliefs?
I, for one, don't want to be labled a "Plural Marriage Christian". I am simply a 'believer', who also has this in my pedigree. Plural Marriage is only 1% of what I believe.
Blessings,
Doc