John-and-Lori,
I will also be praying for all involved. I am sorry to hear that it did not work out and I can understand your disappointment. It seems so easy to say "God is in control" and we all know that but when you are going through a hurt like this or any other hurt it is hard to fully grasp it. We don't know the whys or why nots sometimes but as long as God is in control He will help us through our time of need, whether it be from online friends or from family or just knowing others are praying for you. I again will be praying for yall and I will pass it along to The Chaplain just to pray for yall.
Chaplains Rose