I've not been on BF for a few years but MAN! I am SO glad to be back! Life's put us through the ringer but also been so good to us. A few years ago we moved into a bigger home to accommodate our "dream SW". Immediately after moving in we had family move in with us. To say I was mired down with their struggles/drama would be putting it lightly. On top of years of that, throw in my awesome DH starting a new company during this & we mutually agreed to put our search for our SW on hold. We're cautiously ready to begin again. More than anything I am looking for friendship with like minded women, a support system that we haven't found anywhere else.