My name is Dana. I am a sisterwife (num. 2) to mamaleeisme. we have been best friends for 17 years now and this subject came up to me about 1 and a half ago. When they brought it up to me I thought they were crazy. I thought it ws some kind of trap due to the fact that i had been seccretly in love with dh for 7 years. I walked away f rom them both and their children because i didnt want to hurt anyone or myself. When i realized they were serious my children and I came and joined them. It was a hard adjustment at first but has gotten much easier as time has gone by. mamaleeisme and dh are wonderful with my feelings and viseversea. (atleaset I try to be) i look foward to meeting with some of you at the retreat and chatting further.