Peterson is pandering to the incels because that's a huge chunk of his viewership "The Beta Male King". Every time I have talked to a close friend or family about polygamy, those concerns were repeated (It destabilizes society OR think of the children). Enforcement of monogamy is really asking for enforced sex, not everyone deserves sex & sex should not be something earned. Sex should be granted and given by consenting lovers. Sex should not be considered a tool, treat, reward system for sexless men. Sex is for procreation (sure does feel good though thanks GOD!). I also believe not everyone deserves to procreate or have children (sorry not sorry). If you are a genetic dead end, piled high with genetic diseases and unhealthy life habits, maybe consider not destabilizing the gene pool and obtain a hobby or five, save money or help your family/friends raise their children. Women should have the freedom of choosing their mates based on their emotional, and biological or spiritual needs; competition creates a healthy society. I guess their fear is simple - sexless men get angry and aggressive and are dangerous to women...blah blah. But in reality, sexless men start to aim their frustrations on the broken system and the people and institutions that enforce their loneliness or misery. Sexless men have always been a problem today and in the ancient world but in the past brothels, warfare, famine, and church(s) (sexless men devoting their love and energy towards serving their God or religion as monks & priests) kept society in check. There are two population problems today, lack of children being born (in general and in healthy families), and the increasing population of sexless men with no goals, missions or desires to compete.
Please excuse my autistic rant.
Modern Societies: Definitely not destabilized.
- Millions of children living in split homes or never even having a united family, most all in poverty.
- Monogamous Divorce rates 40-50%.
- Single parent homes forced to pay others to raise their children, destroying early familial bonding.
- Single parents not able to work in some states and areas due to daycare expenses costing more than 2-3 minimum wage jobs can provide.
- Single parent dating confuses and emotionally stunts the children's healthy development. How many potential moms/dads does a kid have to get their hopes up for, only to be crushed after a short emotional ride with a crash at the end?
- In some cases, young (late teen) single parents raising children to repeat the cycle of "kids raising - kids - raising kids"
- Online dating and hook up culture - promoted by the entertainment industry - Giving young adults a corrupt degenerate view of courting, communicating, and sex in general.
- Free pornography - creates incels , gives men and women unrealistic views and outlooks of sex. Creates dopamine addictions, encourages infidelity of thought & mind, can lead to physical infidelity.
- Western economies and countries importing millions of climate (economic) refugees to offset the tilted scales, of more pensioners than new workers entering the work industry. Sacrificing unique cultures for monetary security and to preserve the "Accepted Hierarchy."
A Healthy Society:
- A balance of both Monogamy and Polygamy.
- Banning of Pornography.
- Re-direct the idea of forced monogamy with enforced strong marriage - stop promoting divorce or cheap access to it.
- For divorces that do not involve - infidelity, drug use, domestic abuse - Court enforced family classes, counseling & tax incentives to encourage the family to stay together rather than split the homes/assets and children's heart/mind.
- Stop encouraging divorce with mandatory child support and instead enforce mandatory shared custody (excluding drug use, domestic abuse..etc - situations). This would free up the court system and stabilize unstable families.
- Re-direct the cash assistance/food stamps to healthy strong families that are securing society's future, by having children raised in a good home. (Polygamy could assist with problems of single mothers).
- Military should provide a larger signing bonus and housing/MOS choices towards sexless men, as in the days of old. This will direct their energy towards the benefit of society (they may even get in shape and find someone overseas on deployment like our Vietnam or Korean war veterans!).
http://www.coabode.org/
- Check out the number of homeless single mothers searching for other single mothers or families to take them in for (co-habitation). Definitely not a symptom of a destabilized society.
w w w singlemotherguide.com/single-mother-statistics