woodysgang
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I have been browsing BF for over a yr and have learned so much. I feel the need to tell others about my journey and were we are right now.
My sw and I have been best friends since the 3rd grade. We met our husband in 1996 and new that we would live pm from the start. No we were not raised in the pm life style and were very terrified about what people would think. My first child was born in the beginning of 1998 and when SW became pregnant shortly after things began to change. She was very worried what her mother and family would think and how we would explain our family to them. To make a long story short she decided to leave us although my DH remained active in the child life. In 2006 it became necessary for our part of the family to move to another state and life became quit difficult for SW. She legaly married someone else then divorced. She became pregnant, gave the baby up for adoption and then became involved in drugs. We remained in contact but never knew of all her struggles. When the Lord made it possible for us to come back to our home town she made it very clear that she was willing and ready to be a part of our family. We have been back over a yr and have moyved into one home. She has left the oldest child with her mom in another school district and this causes strife between the kids. Our discipline tactics are totally different and all the kids feel that the others are treated differently. At this time I am wondering if we are being used and lied to. I pray that I am wrong gotta go for now right more later
My sw and I have been best friends since the 3rd grade. We met our husband in 1996 and new that we would live pm from the start. No we were not raised in the pm life style and were very terrified about what people would think. My first child was born in the beginning of 1998 and when SW became pregnant shortly after things began to change. She was very worried what her mother and family would think and how we would explain our family to them. To make a long story short she decided to leave us although my DH remained active in the child life. In 2006 it became necessary for our part of the family to move to another state and life became quit difficult for SW. She legaly married someone else then divorced. She became pregnant, gave the baby up for adoption and then became involved in drugs. We remained in contact but never knew of all her struggles. When the Lord made it possible for us to come back to our home town she made it very clear that she was willing and ready to be a part of our family. We have been back over a yr and have moyved into one home. She has left the oldest child with her mom in another school district and this causes strife between the kids. Our discipline tactics are totally different and all the kids feel that the others are treated differently. At this time I am wondering if we are being used and lied to. I pray that I am wrong gotta go for now right more later
