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[anewday]

I registered with this site only a few days ago. What little I know in regards to PM, I find is bible. I feel a little awkward in asking questions mainly cause I'm not sure how to word them. Have others out there joined this site and had similar thoughts? Did you feel uneasy in approaching the subject even though you really did want to gain more understanding? Did you think you had to be careful in the way you worded your questions? I see to that some of the women write here and they seem to show respect for the man. Others write things thats eem to me to lack respect Seem sometimes, to me anyway, that men should take the lead in certain areas first instead of a few of the women seeming to take the lead. Oh I don't doubt that their want to is right, but still is the man not the leader and should he not be the one to answer on paticular matters? I thank you for letting me say these things and I hope I haven"t brought offense to anybody. If it is OK I want to be able to talk freely, get to a place where I can be comfortable as I really do want to be open and get answers from the know how that the men on this site have gained and seem willing to share.I also want to get to know the women better too. They have exp.they can share and i can learn. Because we are 2 different genders don't mean we can't get along.Though men are to lead, I think that some of the women have a good bit of knowledge to. Thank you for your time.

 

[James]

Anewday,

Wanted to take the time to welcome you to Biblical Families. I hope that you are able to gain as much knowledge as possible when it comes to being part of a plural relationship. I have learned that it can be a long journey and time has to be taken when making the right decision. Pray, pray and continue to pray and let God lead you down the right path. As for knowing what to say or not say, that is a learn as you go, but I don't think you will have a problem. There are a lot of nice people on this site and some can be very helpful. Good luck and God Bless, welcome to Biblical Families.

God Bless,

James

 

[steve]

welcome :!:

all relationships differ with regard to the mans ability to lead and his wife's ability to follow and respect his leadership. let the Lord lead you and do not go by what you see in others.

just ask simple questions, mostly one at a time, and you will probably get more answers than you know what to do with. do not be shy, we need good questions. they help us grow also!

 

[Revgill87123]

Agreed with Steve! I have a hard time wording questions as well. Most of the time people on here figure what I mean and then reword the question for me, then I just say "Yep thats what I ment",lol. So yeah just feel free to jump in! Once again welcome and may you be blessed!

 

[Alex @ Nori]

We are new to the lifestyle and this has really been a life changing event for us. We have been married for 13 years and have 2 daughters ages 11 and 12. Neither of us can have children so if that is a deal breaker for you that is fine. We understand. We live in Omaha, NE and love it here and looking to expand our family with the addition of a 2nd wife. We are not looking for a nanny but a loving person I can be close with and a lover for my husband. We are a loving family with aloy of love to give. I am 35 and my wife is 32 and we are a Christian family.