My poor brain has been programmed by too much tv. Reading that my brain recalled "get a rope." Because of the old commercials for Pace Picante sauce.
They would tell you about how pace is made in San Antonio by folks who know how picante sauce should taste. Then someone would say "This stuff (competitor brand) is made in New York city" then the group reaction.
"NEW YORK CITY?!"
Followed by ...... the rope comment. Lol
I know there are good people everywhere......and Babylon is global and her days are numbered.
So be brave in going where God leads. We each have a unique place in His plan. No man can play follow the leader and listen to or imitate another man (or woman) and be truly following his maker.
I pray He lights your path, guides and directs you in leading your family.