Hi April88,
You wil have to forgive Paul for reading the Ladies Only post. It is hard to remember to check the posting locations when you are just reading from a list of "new posts". I am sure you appreciate his thoughts though. I would certainly have to agree with him. A heart felt appology can usually work miracles. And it doesn't have to even be one that says you are wrong for your opinion it can just be a sorry for HOW I stated my opinion. I am sure you will know what is best to say and if it is not received well at first don't worry. You can have peace that you have done the right thing and now it is up to your sister to do the right thing.
Family relationships can be so difficult at times. We have all been there at one time or another. Our prayers are with you.
Hope for the future,
Julieb