Video: How Women Disrespect Men Without Realizing It

[FatherRuleMemes]

I found these videos helpful by putting into words the things I have felt but didn't know how to express. The guy is not coming from a biblical perspective and his closing remarks in the second video are clearly anti-hierarchical, but the rest is a great explanation.

Part 1

Part 2

 

[MeganC]

If a man wants me to respect him then he must be worthy of my respect.

Offering my respect to someone who I do not consider worthy of respect would be an act of deception and falsehood.

Therefore my requirement that a man must be worthy of my respect is a consequence of my desire to be a woman of character.

 

[FatherRuleMemes]

If a man wants me to respect him then he must be worthy of my respect.

Offering my respect to someone who I do not consider worthy of respect would be an act of deception and falsehood.

Therefore my requirement that a man must be worthy of my respect is a consequence of my desire to be a woman of character.

Literally in the first minute of the first video he points out disrespecting and not respecting aren't the same thing.

 

[FatherRuleMemes]

I would also like to point out this is in regards to men and women already in a relationship. Not men generally. I think we have crossed swords before because of a misunderstanding about who is entitled to respect.

 

[Rainy Day]

Most of his points can be easily summarized by simply stating that a woman should not hen-peck her husband.

I dislike the title, as I feel like it is click-bait for men who are looking to criticise women in a way that is becoming very popular, and honestly is jarring. His points themselves aren't too bad, if not taken to odd extremes or in accusations and as a restraint against your wife. He just wants privacy and to not be cross-examined. Which is normal. (However of course, if someone has a big problem like affairs and a porn addiction, the wife should be privy to that information as it is breaking the commandments of God and it's not fair to keep her trapped in that type of relationship. Same if the wife was having an affair, the husband should know.)
His point of teasing is weird to me, unless he is only saying to not make backhanded comments towards your husband, especially in front of people. But if he is talking about the normal relationship of teasing each other, because it might make the husband look "lower" than the wife, then I take it he personally is one of those guys who dislikes joking around and sarcasm in general. But for a lot of people it works fine.