12 years later - let me reintroduce myself

[MemeFan]

I am in a monogamous relationship, but really what man is actually monogamous, so all the info gleaned here is beneficial. it's strange reassuring a man that I am ok with a man having multiple partners and there is still the hiding and shadiness.

Care to explain this? I don't understand.

Who is OK with poly relationships? Do you want for the man to be in monogamous relationship?

 

[Tamara]

Care to explain this? I don't understand.

Who is OK with poly relationships? Do you want for the man to be in monogamous relationship?

I am editing my comment you are referring to rather than go into needless detail.

 

[MemeFan]

i am dating a man who is monogamous, however my Spidey senses tell me there are other women "around" and I try to reassure him without accusation that I am ok and understanding with the fact that I might not be the only woman in his life. What I was saying was more about the claims of men being monogamous and than them actually being monogamous. I attempting to make a joke. I am neurodivergent, it is what it is.

Ok thanks.

It just wasn't written clearly as this post.

EDIT: You may need to be more explicit with your communication about understanding.

 

[Tamara]

Ok thanks.

It just wasn't written clearly as this post.

EDIT: You may need to be more explicit with your communication about understanding.

duly noted.

 

[Daniel DeLuca]

Although my first experience being approached by and getting to know on the forum was great - he was quite a gentlemen and was very respectful of me - I had a bad experience the second time and I just basically ran away from the thought of plural marriage.

Note to all the men. The relatively speaking few women that decide to explore this, must not be having bad experiences!!!