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Meet a potential alone or with FW?

If your wife is still juggling the emotions in waves, if you go alone don’t be surprised if she melts down after you leave. I don’t think it’s uncommon for a lot of first wives to feel nauseous, scared or just stress out thinking you are going to just have sex and come home with a new wife after that first meeting/date. Some of us throw logic out the window in those first new experiences. Be patient with her and get her connected with other first wives that understand the irrational emotions but that will always encourage her in her marriage and God’s word.
 
If your wife is still juggling the emotions in waves, if you go alone don’t be surprised if she melts down after you leave. I don’t think it’s uncommon for a lot of first wives to feel nauseous, scared or just stress out thinking you are going to just have sex and come home with a new wife after that first meeting/date. Some of us throw logic out the window in those first new experiences. Be patient with her and get her connected with other first wives that understand the irrational emotions but that will always encourage her in her marriage and God’s word.
Good and wise advice. Thanks. I will check out if she is willing to come to the forum.
 
This is the worst advice I have ever read. Building a marriage off of a sexual relationship or lack thereof is an absolute dumpster fire waiting to happen. Sex can’t be the end all be all of a relationship, there are more things marriage is predicated on than sex. At most if you having sex everyday Thats maybe an hour tops what are you doing the other 23 hrs of your day?
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C'mon, I never said sex in only thing which matters. It's only only thing which distinguishes marriage from rest of relationship type.

Don't imagine what I never said or implied.
 
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