Prostitution vs adultery

[Mark C]

In addition to be revolting, and just plain obtuse when it comes to not being able to "rightly divide the Word," and even begin to see His "Bigger Picture," it occurred to me when I saw this demand what really rankles me about your attitude, Zec:

Show me where God said what details are necessary for a marriage.

You'd make a REALLY crappy engineer.

"Show me what details are necessary to design a bridge."

We called such people "plug and chug." Show me the equations, tell me how to do it.

No insight. No initiative. No concept of innovation, or even of an ability to "connect-the-dots."

That's it, in a nutshell. You can't connect the dots, and demand someone do it for you. Then you berate their conclusion.

It's why you can't understand "Covenant," whether for marriage, or His people. And why you refuse to see that the answer is right in the story you belittle and ignore.


PS> I don't expect an answer, or for you to behave like an adult. I just thought folks might find the observation helpful for sorting through some of the crap...

 

[frederick]

Ownership is right to exclude. Parents can exclude other people from having contract with their children.

Yet, parentship is social relationship and children aren't for sale. Same can be with marriage.

Taking something that doesn't belong to you is called theft. Taking something which you have no right to take and then using it doesn't change the fact you had no right to it in the first place. It doesn't become yours simply by unlawful use. Boaz first had to establish his right to Ruth, then she became his, and it's only then he had the right to make babies with Ruth.

 

[FollowingHim]

Alright @FollowingHim and @Maddog , this “flesh only means flesh” (same word as in one flesh) thing is unsupportable. Christ said that communion is His flesh and there were a ton of other verses where was juxtaposed with deep spiritual concepts.

I absolutely will start that thread if you insist but considering how it touches on communion and Christ’s flesh it would seem simpler for you to just admit that that flesh can have deep spiritual implications.

We were created with eternal bodies in Eden and we will have perfected bodies in Heaven so clearly flesh is connected to the spiritual realm anyway.

I never said the flesh cannot have deep spiritual implications. The whole reason we are having this discussion is because understanding "one flesh" does have deep spiritual implications. If there were no spiritual implications it wouldn't matter at all that you became "one flesh" with whoever - if God didn't care we could go and sleep with all the prostitutes we liked, fleshly implications be damned however real they may be. It is the very fact that He says not to - the spiritual implication of it - which is why we are having the discussion in the first place.

This is not a matter we are in disagreement about.

You're off on a tangent again instead of addressing what we're actually saying - just like how above you skipped all the list of things @Man_in_the_Middle said in his post, argued about one almost irrelevant tangent instead (the definition of "ownership"), and then when he complained that you'd skipped all the details in his post - that list of numbered points he had presented in detail for you - you pretended he hadn't even given any detail and asked for him to say it again. This is ridiculously pointless.

 

[FollowingHim]

If you do feel like getting back on topic Zec, tell us whether or not you fully agree with this post of mine, and if you do not fully agree, let us know specifically what details you agree and disagree with.

First they determined that Ruth could be exclusively Boaz's woman and nobody else had a claim on her. That was done via the threshing floor discussion, and Boaz's negotiations with the other relative. This was not "just details", it was all essential under the cultural circumstances to ensure that Boaz had the right to take Ruth.

Then, having established she was his woman, they were able to have sex and become one flesh.


These are the same two simple yet essential steps that all of us follow also. Establishing if she is your woman can be as simple as a private conversation if she's clearly available and her own agent (Boaz could have taken Ruth after just the threshing floor discussion had there been no other relative with a claim on her), or a long bureaucratic procedure if she's going through divorce court, or full of complex ritual if she happens to be a royal princess with a father who insists on a pompous state wedding... Whatever the circumstances, do what is needed to ensure she is yours. Then you can become one flesh. Couldn't be simpler.

 

[The Revolting Man]

You're off on a tangent again instead of addressing what we're actually saying - just like how above you skipped all the list of things @Man_in_the_Middle said in his post, argued about one almost irrelevant tangent instead (the definition of "ownership"), and then when he complained that you'd skipped all the details in his post - that list of numbered points he had presented in detail for you - you pretended he hadn't even given any detail and asked for him to say it again. This is ridiculously pointless.

All of the points in that post fall apart of ownership isn’t what he claims it is. Everything he said there was predicated on husbands owning their wives and having to acquire clear title from the woman’s father.

That is patently untrue and not supported by scripture. As soon as I pointed that out the rest of his post had been dealt with.