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AbrahamSolomon said:
I have 7 Wives and 1 son and 2 adopted Daughters
Kim, Karen, Dorty, Valeria, Bianca, Maggie, Alexandra
We go to other countries and Teach The Word of G-d and Feed The Poor.
Most of my time I am running my household or running to and from places.

I am 44 yrs old and I mainly study G-ds Word and run my businesses.
I don’t watch TV much unless it's religious documentaries. We Pray 5 Times a day (8am, 11am, 2pm, 5pm, 8pm) 7 days a week and sometimes more. I don’t like sports but when I workout extremely 4 hrs daily when I have time and when I am able I walk 30,000 steps a day, but most of the time I am overwhelmed with work so I do it when I can.

My House is like a Royal Business where we stay focused on building and expanding non-stop, everything is The Families and handed out as needed. All my sons are like Executives who own a percentage of The Family Business and my Oldest Son is Head after me.

Requirements and Classifications between Wives and Concubines.
Wives: Never married/claimed marriage nor have had any kids.
Expectations: If your husband died and was a Teacher of G-d.

Concubines: If you had any kids and your husband is died and not a Teacher of G-d or
He is a non-believer and left you and not you leaving him.

We are looking for G-dly Women who don’t:

Drink
Smoke
Drugs
Celebrate any Pagan Holidays

We want Women who will:

Submit everything to their Husband and to G-d.
Obeying me is Love and I will also Love you.
We have no Free Rides. Everyone works.
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Wow you have 7 wives, how did you meet them and why can't you meet more the same way that you need a dating site to find more? And I see your Torah observant like me. I am hoping to find Torah observant women who are single and accept polygyny but from what I've seen in the Torah community it is something that is usually that most disagree with.
 
Torahobservantmmck86 said:
Wow you have 7 wives, how did you meet them and why can't you meet more the same way that you need a dating site to find more? And I see your Torah observant like me. I am hoping to find Torah observant women who are single and accept polygyny but from what I've seen in the Torah community it is something that is usually that most disagree with.
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Hit enter before I finished my thought. I'm looking to learn how one might find Torah observant women who are open to polygyny from others who have done so.
 
Torahobservantmmck86 said:
Wow you have 7 wives, how did you meet them and why can't you meet more the same way that you need a dating site to find more? And I see your Torah observant like me. I am hoping to find Torah observant women who are single and accept polygyny but from what I've seen in the Torah community it is something that is usually that most disagree with.
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It has been 10 years in the making of meeting women who did not fit, I am 100% upfront so if we don't match we don't waste each other's time.
There is so much more they should know before ever talking to me, but most site say simple is best well to people like me that bring women I can't match with.
 
AbrahamSolomon said:
It has been 10 years in the making of meeting women who did not fit, I am 100% upfront so if we don't match we don't waste each other's time.
There is so much more they should know before ever talking to me, but most site say simple is best well to people like me that bring women I can't match with.
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Where did you meet them? Was it online or cukkoth or pesach gatherings?
 
Torahobservantmmck86 said:
Where did you meet them? Was it online or cukkoth or pesach gatherings?
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I've meet them on Sisterwives.com, I have also meet crazy women as well.
But that is almost every dating website.
 
AbrahamSolomon said:
I have 7 Wives and 1 son and 2 adopted Daughters
Kim, Karen, Dorty, Valeria, Bianca, Maggie, Alexandra
We go to other countries and Teach The Word of G-d and Feed The Poor.
Most of my time I am running my household or running to and from places.

I am 44 yrs old and I mainly study G-ds Word and run my businesses.
I don’t watch TV much unless it's religious documentaries. We Pray 5 Times a day (8am, 11am, 2pm, 5pm, 8pm) 7 days a week and sometimes more. I don’t like sports but when I workout extremely 4 hrs daily when I have time and when I am able I walk 30,000 steps a day, but most of the time I am overwhelmed with work so I do it when I can.

My House is like a Royal Business where we stay focused on building and expanding non-stop, everything is The Families and handed out as needed. All my sons are like Executives who own a percentage of The Family Business and my Oldest Son is Head after me.

Requirements and Classifications between Wives and Concubines.
Wives: Never married/claimed marriage nor have had any kids.
Expectations: If your husband died and was a Teacher of G-d.

Concubines: If you had any kids and your husband is died and not a Teacher of G-d or
He is a non-believer and left you and not you leaving him.

We are looking for G-dly Women who don’t:

Drink
Smoke
Drugs
Celebrate any Pagan Holidays

We want Women who will:

Submit everything to their Husband and to G-d.
Obeying me is Love and I will also Love you.
We have no Free Rides. Everyone works.
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You're far more on the right track now. I'd still delete that "requirements and classifications between wives and concubines" bit, that is getting into details you would be far better to discuss later on. Then submit it and see if it's approved.
AbrahamSolomon said:
I've meet them on Sisterwives.com, I have also meet crazy women as well.
But that is almost every dating website.
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@AbrahamSolomon, given you've met them online and most are overseas - do all of these women truly believe they are your wives? Or are some just women you've sent some emails back and forth with?
 
AbrahamSolomon said:
I have 7 Wives and 1 son and 2 adopted Daughters
Kim, Karen, Dorty, Valeria, Bianca, Maggie, Alexandra
We go to other countries and Teach The Word of G-d and Feed The Poor.
Most of my time I am running my household or running to and from places.

I am 44 yrs old and I mainly study G-ds Word and run my businesses.
I don’t watch TV much unless it's religious documentaries. We Pray 5 Times a day (8am, 11am, 2pm, 5pm, 8pm) 7 days a week and sometimes more. I don’t like sports but when I workout extremely 4 hrs daily when I have time and when I am able I walk 30,000 steps a day, but most of the time I am overwhelmed with work so I do it when I can.

My House is like a Royal Business where we stay focused on building and expanding non-stop, everything is The Families and handed out as needed. All my sons are like Executives who own a percentage of The Family Business and my Oldest Son is Head after me.

Requirements and Classifications between Wives and Concubines.
Wives: Never married/claimed marriage nor have had any kids.
Expectations: If your husband died and was a Teacher of G-d.

Concubines: If you had any kids and your husband is died and not a Teacher of G-d or
He is a non-believer and left you and not you leaving him.

We are looking for G-dly Women who don’t:

Drink
Smoke
Drugs
Celebrate any Pagan Holidays

We want Women who will:

Submit everything to their Husband and to G-d.
Obeying me is Love and I will also Love you.
We have no Free Rides. Everyone works.
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You're far more on the right track now. I'd still delete that "requirements and classifications between wives and concubines" bit, that is getting into details you would be far better to discuss later on. Then submit it and see if it's approved.

Reply: I have met women (believers) who had been married to (believer) and divorced yet their husband was still alive and I had to explain that I was forbidden to marry her. She got upset and was mad because I was "judging" her yet I said it was for my own soul that I had to refuse. I would rather they pass me by then to have to explain that any man of G-d should not take her as his wife and she should return to her only Husband.

AbrahamSolomon said:
I've meet them on Sisterwives.com, I have also meet crazy women as well.
But that is almost every dating website.
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@AbrahamSolomon, given you've met them online and most are overseas - do all of these women truly believe they are your wives? Or are some just women you've sent some emails back and forth with?

Kim: (From Texas) I went to High School with.
Dorty: (From Kenya) We meet when she was in Kenya, she is in South Africa right now. But soon she will be home again.
Karen: (From Texas) I meet online to help me seek wives and then fell in love with.
Valeria: (From Kenya) Valeria took over Dorty's work when Dorty went to South Africa.
Bianca: (From South Africa) Dorty's friend and will be taking over Dorty's work in South Africa.
Maggie: (From Ohio) I meet her online and she is also helping me seek more wives.
Alexandra: (South America) She is working on her visa to here and we will need a wife to replace her their.

I have different strategies one is locally and the other is internationally. I use known wives to pick more wives.
I am gathering from all corners and then I will return them to each areas so my children will be embraced as their own.

Dorty is returning and Valeria, Alexandra should be coming soon.
 
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AbrahamSolomon said:
when I workout extremely 4 hrs daily when I have time and when I am able I walk 30,000 steps a day,
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9 hours a day in exercise is impressive! I can barely manage to run my business, one wife, 3 boys, a homestead, and fit in an hour exercise with a 3 mile walk/run.

I tip my hat to you sir!
 
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AbrahamSolomon said:
I am gathering from all corners and then I will return them to each areas so my children will be embraced as their own.
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Do you mean your plan is to find women from all over the world, get them pregnant and then send them back home, so there are single mothers all over the world raising your children?
 
FollowingHim said:
Do you mean your plan is to find women from all over the world, get them pregnant and then send them back home, so there are single mothers all over the world raising your children?
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No, my plan is for my children to grow up and go to their land and Teach G-ds Word.
And it is slowly coming along, but nothing is easy and it is all in G-ds timing.
 
Asforme&myhouse said:
I find that shocking, personally I thought we had them beat.
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Apparently
LovesDogs said:
I'm sort of with you on this one. Personally I prefer seeing someone put it all out there and I like putting it all out there myself on those sites. It may be too much but why waste time dancing around the subject. I want to know what's expected of me and I'd like others to know what they're getting themselves into with me. I may be in the minority though.

I'd take @FollowingHim up on his offer of helping you tweak some things, he's super sensible.
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I think you may well be in the minority.
I have had several women tell me that the longer profile where I am trying to give at least a thumbnail sketch as to what sort of people and family we are and the direction we are going is Way too long. To the point that they suspect many women are not going to bother reading it all.

I transitioned to a handful of bullet points and I think three'ish paragraphs at the end. Hypothetically better but no proof of concept to date on either of the sites I am on.
 
FollowingHim said:
@AbrahamSolomon, note that just from the discussions we have had with you here I guessed exactly correctly why @ModernPolygamy rejected your profile. As I suspected, there is nothing unreasonable about what they have done, it all makes perfect sense.

You just have difficulty interacting with other humans online. I suspect you're far better to talk to in person, but online you spend an extraordinary amount of time formulating detailed theses that simply confuse and turn people away. As @Maddog has pointed out, your grammar is also atrocious and offputting - maybe writing has just never been your strong point. That's not an insult - there's nothing wrong with being more at-home with a chainsaw than a computer keyboard. It's just a matter of recognising your strengths and weaknesses.

If you don't know how to write something like this, sit down with someone who can write better and get them to help.
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A writer's and theologian's tools are words used correctly. Learn it.
 
paterfamilias said:
Wait! What!?!

There are crazy women on that site?

That may help to explain why such a well polished diamond such as me is not having great luck recently.
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About a 2 yrs ago give or take.

I think grown women think they want to be in a polygynous marriage and then decide they want you alone.
This kind of problem can burn your house down, but it can be something they don't say right away. I won't use names but a woman I met and just got out of a relationship and her ex boyfriend tried to kill her, she just found out she was pregnant. She was told her baby wouldn't make it so I prayed and asked others to pray. Her baby made it and I still thought they would join my family, but she said she wanted me alone and I said I'm sorry you're a very nice woman but I already have wives. Because I am always seeking new wives I've met some interesting women.

May Hashem Bless Everyone of you with Wives who Obey G-d and May your Children be Blessed as well.
 
I have had that experience more than once irl and things tend to fall apart soon thereafter
 
Any men with any signs of luck with modernpolygamy.com?
I have been active for a few days yet not one woman has even viewed my profile.
There is no way to filter out people so you would think at least one woman would click?
 
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